Adventures in The Breast Cancer 3-Day, Arizona Style
2006 Arizona Breast Cancer
3-Day Walk: 20 miles a day for 3 days
Some facts, very important facts
that I learned before and during The Walk:
1. No one is immune – young women,
older women, men, everyone and anyone can get breast cancer.
2. There is an insidious form of
breast cancer called Inflammatory Breast Cancer – it looks like
mosquito bites on your skin, or maybe a bumpy allergic reaction – and
most doctors, even some oncologists, don’t know about it. Do not let
your doctor dismiss you; this is a particularly virulent form of cancer
and is often fatal due to untimely diagnosis. Keep pushing until
someone listens!
3. If you have fibrocystic disease
(like I do, and like my friend, teammate and breast cancer survivor
Bonny does), a breast cancer lump may be hard and immovable, unlike your
fibroids.
4. If you have any doubts at
all, see your doctor. Right now, early detection is the key to beating
breast cancer.
Meanwhile, we walk until we find a cure……
Where to start, what to say? What's
most important is that, in walking 60 miles over three days (November 3,
4 and 5, 2006) here in the Valley of the Sun, over 2,000 walkers raised
more than $5 million to assist those going through treatment, as well as
contributing to research for a cure. I was one of those walkers. I
know, you're laughing – you know I'd drive around the block
rather than walk, so what motivated me and how did I do it?
My initial motivation came in the summer
of 2005 when I was diagnosed as pre-diabetic, just barely, but the
number was elevated. I realized I had to change my diet and do some
type of exercise, besides watching TV. I swam for a few weeks, which I
hate anyway, so I was relieved when it became too cold to swim. Now I
had to find something even easier than going in my backyard pool. I
began walking, and walking eventually became my passion – I walked 5
days a week, starting out slowly and for just maybe 15 minutes, then ½
hour, then an hour. This required me to get up earlier in the morning,
and, I know, again you laugh – I've never willingly gotten up in the
morning for anything except vacation!
I decided to try the Climb to Conquer
Cancer, which was a 5.5 mile walk up South Mountain – I figured I could
make it maybe half-way up, but it was a good cause and a reason to walk
on a Saturday morning (February, 2006). I shocked myself by not only
making it to the top, but easily walking the 5.5 miles, plus to
and from the buses (maybe another couple of miles). For some reason
(and I will never understand why) this Climb made me think I could walk
The Walk. So, not knowing what was in store for me, I signed up!
My first challenge was to raise $2200 so
that I would be allowed to walk, and that's when the motivation became
more extrinsic: breast cancer is the number one curable cancer
that kills women. It also kills men, so you guys are not exempt. There
is virtually no one who doesn't know someone who has had breast cancer.
I wanted to walk The Walk to contribute to finding a cure so that no
one will ever again lose a mother, sister, daughter, aunt, grandmother,
wife, niece, or friend to breast cancer.
My training began in earnest in May,
when I attended an Expo to learn about The Walk and what to expect. I
got a lot of valuable tips from people who had walked before, and signed
up for the on-line trainer to send me emails with each week’s training
schedule.
I used the 3-Day.org website for
fundraising as well as finding the location of Training Walks. These
walks are led by experienced walkers and are set up so you gradually
build up distance in walking. I think the first training walk I did was
3 miles, which seems like such a short distance to me now -- the last
training walk I participated in before The Walk was 17 miles! I also
continued my 5 days a week regimen – I ended up walking five to six days
a week for 6 months…
I had already changed my diet, but
becoming an athlete in training required that I change it again – I had
to add back in some carbs and drink lots more water and sports drinks –
I already carried water with me everywhere, now I had to double the
amount. It was an adjustment to make myself eat, but my muscles were
craving food as I used them more and more. It was kinda nice to be able
to eat a cheeseburger and fries without worry! (Oh, and my numbers from
my physical came back perfect in 2006 – totally normal blood sugar,
blood pressure, excellent cholesterol numbers – The Walk helped me in
many ways…)
I had never been a member of a team
before, not in the organized, athletic sense, and this was an entirely
new and wonderful experience for me. During the training walks and on
The Walk, the camaraderie was incredible, the support was unbelievable,
and the positive attitude was awe-inspiring. I had no idea that a team
could be so powerful – everyone was patient with everyone else; if
anyone needed help, we all helped; if someone needed to stop, we all
stopped; we were together every step of the way. I know that’s why I
was so successful in completing The Walk with a minimum of pain (one
blister) – the support of my team made it possible. Without them, the
mental part would have been overwhelming for me; with them, I pushed
past the negativity in my mind and succeeded at something I never
thought possible.
The Walk itself seemed to me to be just
another Training Walk – it didn’t seem any longer, really, didn’t seem
any harder -- we just walked and talked our way for 60 miles! We had
pit stops along the way, strategically placed with food, drinks, and the
cleanest porta-potties I’ve ever seen. The Walk was actually easier
than the Training Walks – most of them did not have any
facilities along the way! Looking back on it, now over two months ago,
I don’t yet comprehend the magnitude of what we did, what I did, in
terms of the distance that we walked.
There were people cheering and
encouraging us all along the route – making it fun and easier to keep
walking… Some of them knew walkers, some knew breast cancer victims or
survivors, some were just helping us as we walked through their
neighborhoods… Experiences that stand out for me include:
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Dan, whose wife died of
breast cancer, encouraging us at various points along the route for all
3 days;
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All of the men who dressed
up as women with huge balloon boobs and cheered for us;
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The kids who gave us
stickers, candy and popsicles;
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The “Gatoritas” – snow
cones made with Gatorade;
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The cheerleaders at a
junior high in Tempe who did a cheer they made up just for us as we
walked by;
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The people who made an
arch for us to walk under;
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The ladies who used those
wooden ball massagers to massage our legs;
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The families and friends
who showed up to see us just long enough to give us hugs and cheer us as
we walked on…
At camp I again marveled at the
wonderful, encouraging and supportive atmosphere – everyone was so nice
and so helpful and so caring … The first thing I did upon reaching camp
every day was to sit down – just to know that sitting was an option once
again was wonderful! But not for long; I was eager to shower and feel
somewhat clean again, and then eat… I did stop by the “ice bath” one
afternoon, just to show my teammates how tough I am – and put my feet
into the coldest water I’ve ever encountered and kept them there for at
least a minute, maybe two … never again! It did feel good, but not
that good… The showers were kinda small, and the changing area –
okay, it was just a bench and aisle way between the bench and showers,
but the water was hot and felt really good.
On to the food: okay, I know I’m a
picky eater, always have been, but this food was pretty tasteless –
except the chocolate éclairs for dessert the first night – so it’s a
good thing I snacked all day long Friday, Saturday and Sunday.
During dinner at camp, the entertainment
on the big stage included the Sun City Poms (ladies in their 70’s & 80’s
with fantastic legs who do pom routines). We had various speakers,
among them my team leader Bonny and a fellow-survivor and now friend she
met at the plastic surgeon’s office -- both were warned they might never
be able to have children after chemo, so they brought their almost
year-old sons up on stage with them to demonstrate the theme of their
speeches: “never give up hope.” Mr. Stretch was there every evening
and morning to lead us in stretches so we didn’t get completely stiff…
The tents – ahh, the tents – well, let’s
just say that the best thing about my tent was that it was already up
when I arrived – thanks to the ASU baseball team… I hate camping,
cannot sleep in a tent, and have no idea how to tear it down, either
(good thing my tent mate knew how). It was heaven to return to my own
bed on Sunday night, exhausted but relieved that there was no more tent
in my future for now.
It was an experience of a lifetime and I
will never forget it. Thanks to everyone in the Class of '69 who
contributed to my fundraising and supported me in other ways. Crazy
girl that I am, I've already signed up for next year, making me a member
of the 3-Day Walker Cult. So I'll be hitting you all up for money again
in 2007 ... Remember: it's easier to pay up than WALK!!
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